Queen Margrethe, 82, started her statement, “In recent days, there have been strong reactions to my decision about the future use of titles for Prince Joachim’s four children. That affects me, of course.”

“My decision has been a long time coming. With my 50 years on the throne, it is natural both to look back and to look ahead. It is my duty and my desire as Queen to ensure that the monarchy always shapes itself in keeping with the times. Sometimes, this means that difficult decisions must be made, and it will always be difficult to find the right moment,” she continued. “Holding a royal title involves a number of commitments and duties that, in the future, will lie with fewer members of the royal family. This adjustment, which I view as a necessary future-proofing of the monarchy, I want to take in my own time.”

Queen Margrethe with her grandchildren in 2016.Luca Teuchmann/Getty

Queen Margrethe II of Denmark, Princess Josephine of Denmark, Princess Isabella of Denmark, Prince Vincent of Denmark, Prince Christian of Denmark, Prince Nikolai of Denmark, Prince Felix of Denmark, Princess Athena of Denmark, Prince Henrik of Denmark, Count of Monpezat the celebrations of her Majesty’s 76th birthday at Amalienborg Royal Palace on April 16, 2016 in Copenhagen, Denmark.

“I have made my decision as Queen, mother and grandmother, but, as a mother and grandmother, I have underestimated the extent to which much my younger son and his family feel affected. That makes a big impression, and for that I am sorry,” Margrethe said.

“No one should be in doubt that my children, daughters-in-law and grandchildren are my great joy and pride,” she concluded. “I now hope that we as a family can find the peace to find our way through this situation.”

Queen Margrethe II.Steffi Loos/Getty

Queen Margrethe II of Denmark attends in a state banquet in Bellevue Palace on November 10, 2021 in Berlin, Germany.

Queen Margrethe with Prince Joachim and his family.Patrick van Katwijk/Getty

Queen Margrethe of Denmark, Prince Joachim of Denmark, Princess Marie of Denmark, Prince Nikolai of Denmark, Prince Felix of Denmark, Prince Henrik of Denmark and Princess Athena of Denmark during the confirmation of Princess Isabella of Denmark at on April 30, 2022 in Fredensborg, Denmark.

“My whole family and I are, of course, very sad,” he toldEkstra Bladet. “We are, as my parents have also stated, in shock at this decision and at how quickly it has actually gone.” He added, “I am very confused as to why it has to happen like this.”

Over the weekend, Prince Joachim and Princess Marie spoke to Danish outletB.T., revealing theyhadn’t been in contact with Queen Margrethe— or his brother Prince Frederik and sister-in-law Princess Mary — since the decision was publicly shared.

Prince Felix, Princess Marie, Prince Joachim, Princess Athena, Prince Henrik and Prince Nikolai.MADS CLAUS RASMUSSEN/Ritzau Scanpix/AFP via Getty

Prince Felix, Princess Marie, Prince Joachim, Princess Athena, Prince Henrik and Prince Nikolai arrive for a luncheon on the Dannebrog Royal Yacht, in Copenhagen, on September 11, 2022, during the 50th anniversary of Queen Margrethe II of Denmark’s accession to the throne.

In the original announcement, the Danish palace noted that “the Queen’s decision is in line with similar adjustments that other royal houses have made in various ways in recent years.” Sweden’s King Carl XVI Gustafannouncedin October 2019 that the children ofPrincess Madeleineand Chris O’Neill as well asPrince Carl PhilipandPrincess Sofiawould no longer be official members of the royal house. They retained their titles of prince or princess, but the titles became personal and any future spouses or children will not have a right to them.

The decision does not affect the four children of Crown Prince Frederik, who is heir to the throne, with his wife,Crown Princess Mary. Unlike their cousins,Prince Christian, 16,Princess Isabella, 15, and 11-year-old twins Prince Vincent and Princess Josephine will both continue to be part of the royal house — at least for now.

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Prince Vincent, Crown Prince Frederik, Princess Isabella, Queen Margrethe, Prince Christian, Princess Josephine and Crown Princess Mary.Patrick van Katwijk/Getty

Queen Margrethe of Denmark, Crown Prince Frederik of Denmark, Crown Princess Mary of Denmark, Prince Christian of Denmark, Princess Isabella of Denmark, Princess Josephine of Denmark and Prince Vincent of Denmark during the confirmation of Princess Isabella of Denmark at Fredensborg Palace on April 30, 2022 in Fredensborg, Denmark.

Princess Marysaid last weekthat while Prince Christian is set to become monarch someday, title changes may be made for her younger children.

“We will also look at our children’s titles when the time comes,” she said. “Today we do not know what the royal house will look like in Christian’s time, or when Christian’s time begins to approach.”

source: people.com